So instead of giving up on the whole thing – which, as you know – is incredibly shortsighted, given that you have 50 more years on this earth, how about you change focus?
I believe I have a lot to offer – I am caring, kind, warm, loyal and intelligent. I am not looking for a father for the boys; they have one.Divorce is a very traumatizing experience especially when it happens after one has already had kids and is well settled.Indeed, in The Divorce Experience: A Study of Divorce at Midlife and Beyond conducted by researcher Xenia Montenegro for the AARP, divorce is observed to be as emotionally traumatizing to a couple as experiencing a major illness.I’m tired of guys treating me like I should be grateful if they even stick around for five minutes. Do I need to be a nun in order to find someone who can actually see a relationship with me?Even if I really take my time getting to know someone before we become intimate… Don’t hear from him for days, I assume it’s over…then a text with, “hey are you home tonight? Is it unreasonable that I am hoping someone could take me seriously or see my worth?