At Elite Singles we have many diverse members from all around New Zealand.
That said, many of our members are aged between 30 and 55: resulting in many single parents dating and looking for love on our site.
It is vital that children don’t feel like they have to compete with a new person for Mum’s or Dad’s attention.
Naturally, you can tell your kid(s) that you've been spending time with a friend, but you want to stress (more than once) that this does not make your children any less important to you.
If you want to meet other Kiwi parents in your situation, then Elite Singles is right for you. Of course, the truth is that there are many paths to true love, from those that settle down right away to those who find love later in life.
This diversity means there is no 'normal' when it comes to family life: instead there are a raft of different ways to live happily ever after.
“As a single parent, you can’t be spontaneous anymore, which is a really important thing for dating.” Dating Frustrations Scott is not alone. More than three-quarters of these are women who hold primary custody of their children.
Some of these parents are newly single, still in tender shock over the breakup of their marriages or relationships.
It is of course important to let your date know about your kids but it is also essential for any potential partner to get to know you as a single adult, to see if you two have the same spark in real life as you do online.
Perhaps you prepared for hours, trying on a dozen outfits, flat-ironing your hair to perfection and engaging in imaginary conversations with the person who could possibly turn out to be “the one.” Now imagine being a single parent on a date. Is this guy really worth the an hour in babysitter fees?
But more than anything, on your dinner date, can you manage to not pass out in your rigatoni from sheer exhaustion?
As Sam Owen says ‘’Children feel secure when there is stability and stability leads to healthy self-esteem in childhood, adolescence and adulthood.‘’ This also means that dating for parents can be more complicated than childless dating, as there are more opinions involved!
As well as you and your partner’s input, you need your children’s.