Perhaps you love him so much that you want to believe him or you don’t think ‘he’s that type of guy’.
Alternatively, he’s such a good debater that he’s persuaded you that you’re being paranoid (and therefore beginning to doubt your own instincts) or he claims your constant questioning is doing his head in (and you’re frightened of ruining the relationship).
Perhaps you’d like to make the bedroom a smartphone/tablet-free area, so you can concentrate on each other – chatting over the day or having sex together.
One month later, I checked his phone and found he had saved the woman’s number under another name and had been phoning her constantly, and texting her at 2am when I went to bed and also throughout the day – even when he went to the shops to get nappies.This I because when someone first becomes enamoured, we can’t stop talking about them so your alarm bells will have rung.When he stops mentioning her, you think the madness has passed and you can breathe again.Most men hardly talk to their friends and text conversations / joke sharing on twitter etc happen only sporadically.So if he’s constantly texting someone that’s a bad sign, as is deleting text messages and suddenly putting a password on his phone. Ask questions (‘What impact do you think this is having on our relationship?