I was so gullible for the love but as soon as he asked me for money I cut him off completely.
The best advice I can give you is if anyone asks for money or your bank details to transfer money into - cut them off totally and report them to the site you originally met on.
I didn't let him get to the point of asking me for money.
I just talked to him yesterday and stopped it today.
Here is a piece of email I have received from his Barrister.
Hello Madam, we were just told that he needs to pay for his flight ticket and BTA money before his documents can be approved because his documents supposed to be out today so he can get it over there in Syria by Monday, so we waiting on the payments of his flight ticket and BTA money so his documents can be approve by the UN Madam. We met on a dating site 2 months ago and he said he was going to buy a house for us and get married to me when he comes back to Australia.
I started chatting to a guy who said he was english born but his father was american.
He was working for the united nations as an orthapedic surgeon which I thought was a bit of a story but I went along with it.
I'm a softy, so I was nice about putting a stop to it. Never once asked any medical questions about my health. When I pull up Facebook it has his picture on the profile but no friends and no post and it references the profile pic as a female. He was in Syria and surgeon doctor working under UN (you will find out his profile in linked in).
They pretend to be soldiers, working in Pakistan and also in jobs that will pull at your heart strings to make you fall for them as soon as possible.
Please take this warning and be very careful and forget about how you feel when you find out, and get them reported to whoever you can. I woke up this morning to a fb request from a guy called Dr James Bryan. He is definitely a good looking man and tells you everything a woman wants to hear.
Now, the sun is here and the sky is as blue as ever. Plans to retire in 2 months and return to states to open clinic.
Wake up and open your beautiful eyes because I have a little sweet word for you. He is a widower with one son James 15 yrs old in boarding school.