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I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.

When I ask them about how they got their cellphone or credit card they just answer they don’t know because their wife did it for them.

Before we start talking about “Dating in Japan” one thing should be crystal clear: If you’ve ever been to Japan you might have noticed that there’s a tremendous number of (often not so handsome) foreign guys walking hand-in-hand with Japanese women.

However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!

Maybe they also think that a foreign woman might expect from their man that he’s telling his feelings straight out several times a day, something a shy Japanese man just won’t do.

Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.

Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.

These are just a few theories by friends, co-workers and myself.

As a result, dating in Japan is usually quite easy for men.

Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.

stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.).

In relationships where the man is foreign I noticed that they mostly speak his native language.

Although they live in Japan and sometimes even have children together who also speak Japanese, the foreign guys don’t / can’t speak Japanese.