‘They don’t make time for you except for when it’s convenient for them.’ 12.‘Not valuing your wants and needs: if you go to the gym every day because it makes you feel good, and every day your partner questions you and argues with you about it until you feel guilty for a harmless activity.’ 13.‘Taking control of money, basically everything is under their control financially.It’s a big one you can’t leave someone if they have the purse strings.‘When they try to control how you spend your time and tell you who you can and cannot hang out with.’ 6.‘When anything happens they make it your fault and you are always wrong.’ 7.‘There is no say in household chores, they will always have excuses and you will be responsible in keeping THEIR home up to their standards.’ 17.
‘Not trusting you to have friends of the opposite gender.’ 15. People who load up on credit card debt, can’t control their compulsive urges to purchase stuff they don’t need on impulse buys, aren’t good partners for building long term financial stability.’ 16.
‘If you are afraid to tell them anything in fear of being yelled at or getting negative comments.’ 8.
‘Gift giving and tallying up favors they did for you and using those as leverage in arguments.’ 9.
If you’re reading this not only out of interest but to see whether any of the following signs align with those you are experiencing yourself from your own partner, there’s a strong chance you’re already in trouble. It seems, for many, you can be so blinded by love that you don’t realise how toxic your relationship is until it’s over.
You excuse their behaviour or ignore it because you don’t want to face the fact that your partner is actually an asshole.