Try sending off a “can’t wait to hear your voice tonight,” to leave them wanting more.
And feel free to use a pet bedroom name if you have one.
Treating phone sex as sexy little appetizing pieces can help take some of the pressure off.
Lauren says just like with IRL sex, it’s important to reconnect after phone sex with laughter and wind down talk after you both orgasm.
You might find yourself following along with your partner’s imagination, or you might be taking the reins yourself.
If you’re shy, your partner might only need to know that you’re a willing participant to take off and lead for you.
Although laughing through the awkwardness may work for some people, if it takes you out of the moment, try redirecting to an earlier point of the conversation. I bet you can imagine my warm lips on your penis right now.” Or shift the onus back to your partner with a hot potato-y “tell me more about what you’d do to me."Let’s say your partner goes from 0–60 real fast and starts calling you names you find disrespectful.
It’s important for both parties to understand that it’s okay to call a "detour" (detour is a word that can keep things moving, as opposed to stop).