If you don't want hot monkey love with a particular human, you need to communicate that. That way both of us can cut our losses and move on. Zip it Up Lately a buddy told me that 70% of the men she meets online yap the entire time they're together, never attaining even basic information about her.
I'd venture to say⎯barring a nasty diagnosis or a death in her immediate family⎯she wasn't attracted, even though she liked him. In other words, she was either avoiding an act of rejection, or she was using him for his brain. Now I was being tested on a subject I knew nothing about. If you don't want someone like me, please let your freak flag fly right away.
Here are some of the rules you should follow to protect yourself and others.
• Do not respond to an ad if you are not genuinely interested. • If you have responded to an ad and the reply is a rejection, don't take it to heart. It just means you are one step closer to finding your love match.
• If the response is from a candidate clearly outside your stated parameters, ignore it. However, reply to all responses, even if the answer is no.
If you’re anything like all the other senior singles looking to date again, it’s likely been quite awhile since your last date. Since many senior couples have their first date as a result of their meeting on a senior dating dite, that means, of course, you two should meet in a well-light, public venue.
Whether you’re re-entering the mature dating game after a divorce or death of spouse, you’re likely wondering what the current dating etiquette rules are that you I’ve already covered how midlife women expect a mature man to pay for the first date. However, once you’ve met, she’s expecting gentlemanly behavior from you. Only after the two of you are a couple and well past your third month of commitment can you start asking her to meet you at the venue. Because your courting behavior creates and fosters a woman’s feelings of attraction. Relying on more traditional manners from Emily Post to start out any relationship will stand you in good stead.