Dating your wife during separation

Unfortunately, her husband began feeling so resentful when she really left that, ultimately, he could not accept her back into his life.

The decision to separate was facilitated when the woman was offered a job in Des Moines.Many times, couples will separate in hopes of saving a marriage. After all, just getting distance from a painful, antagonistic situation can provide you with enough perspective to come back together weeks or months later and sort things out. The man, a newspaper reporter, left his wife in Boston and went on assignment in Russia for a year.Their marriage had been on the rocks, but during the year apart, the two developed an email correspondence that brought them new intimacy and understanding.One of the most common temptations people fall for when a relationship is ending is the desire to find a new love - Often these people have been unhappy and missing love, companionship and sex for a longtime, and so there's a real pent-up, unmet need for love.Since I counsel men and women before, during and after a relationship or marriage, including through a divorce, I frequently see people dating when separated. KURT TALK ABOUT WHEN THE LOVE IS GONE If you really care about your new love interest then you'll apply more reason than emotion to your decision about dating while separated.