For women who have been trying to find that illusive “special someone” for a while, this may seem like an impossible question to answer.After all, for most of our lives, men were simple creatures.So while the actual age may be different, the real question is, “How do I date when I feel older than most of the other people dating? So, when a girl first starts to develop breasts and curves, she starts receiving male attention. So she learns the art of “brushing off.” She doesn’t meet guys’ eyes on the street, doesn’t smile at strangers, can’t strike up conversations in a bar because she just wants conversation.
In fact it is becoming hard for her to even find a date. So by the time a woman is in this place, many of her peers are already coupled up. What do you bring to the table that is going to make him like/want you more than anyone else in the room? It opens up, you’re more confident, at ease, energetic, etc. Even if there isn’t someone in the group that you are interested in, everyone has a brother, a friend, a coworker.It’s when the guys start looking at you as wife potential instead of just a 20-something party girl.And I know when I travel to Utah, I meet 30 year olds with teenagers. After a while, she realizes that she doesn’t want all of that attention.The question has always intrigued me so I did a little research to find out more about why this is happening and whether or not it's true.You don't have to be dating in midlife to know that dating in your 20s was a whole lot easier and more fun.