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If they hesitate, inhale deeply, or stutter then it is a sign that they are not ready.It has been my experience that these people are vanilla and looking to do some kinky bondage stuff in the bedroom while being “dominated”.BDSM has been a pretty quiet lifestyle for many years until 50 Shades of Grey came along.Suddenly vanilla men and women were curious as to the different aspects of the lifestyle.People who are not familiar with the BDSM practice tend to think it is all about power and domination and humiliation.They think it is a way to abuse people for their own sick needs.How can they if they have so much false information?Being a woman and having been a Master myself to both men and women there are a few things I look for to make sure the sub is ready for our relationship. Specific questions: I have very specific questions that I ask.

Not being aware of these would not be a deal breaker; but if they are not willing to check them out then they are not ready. Tell the sub they are wrong: As I have stated before many ideas of the lifestyle are completely wrong.You can view thousands of personal pics of fetishists and meet them in real life.Browse detailed profiles of dominant and submissive singles and read about what turns them on.When the sub starts to give the wrong information tell them politely that they are wrong then pay attention to their physical reaction.If they tense up or their body language looks defensive they are not ready.