Every time I date a nice guy, especially if I like him, I feel so insecure and wonder, what if he’s dating someone else at the same time?Just last month, I met a cute guy and we went out and had so much fun together. Now it’s been a month and we’ve gone out four times.Today, we have come far enough that it’s socially acceptable to be dating more than one person at a time, film it and consider it entertainment!But is it a good idea to date more than one person at a time? “We multitask with virtually everything now - I think I have at least seven tabs open on my computer right now! It can speed up the process of finding your one true love, too.” She does have a point.If you are dating more than one man at a time, the process of elimination is exponentially faster, which is quite possibly the best reason to try mulit-dating. Anything less is pointless, anything more is too hard!The only problem is your feelings can get confused. ” Sophie, 31, worried about what dating many men at once would do to her reputation. For girls though, they always get shamed and looked down upon, which is awful when you think about it,” she says.
If you’re dating a guy for two months and he is still not exclusive with you, you need to take a sober look at how you’re using your precious dating time.
But here’s the thing: We have so much fun together. My best friend tells me to relax – this is just how dating is. I’m going nuts thinking about him dating other girls. However, despite the apparent benefits, the Tinder Revolution often leaves us feeling less self-confident, confused, frustrated, and empty. Everybody wants to feel special and to be treated with love and respect.
She says it’s 100% normal for us to both date multiple people at once until we decide together to make the relationship exclusive. Agreeing to date someone while he or she dates other people signals that it is somehow acceptable not to respect or value you.
Sometimes too much choice is paralysing,” says Cassie, 24. If you’re upfront and clear about where you’re at - perhaps you’re not ready to commit yet and are just having fun - it can save a lot of heartache down the track.
“I don’t mind if a guy is dating other girls, it’s not like we’re exclusive in the early days.