If you met an attractive man at a party, you would be showing him your best side and flirting up a storm. For some women that sounds horrid but in real life we do it all the time. There are some women who only date guys with salaries in the high six-figures, but I am not one of them. It’s all very well posing for hours on end for the perfect picture, or editing your favourite photo on your computer, but that’s not who you really are. People on dating sites want to see the real you and both parties are much more likely to be pleased with what they see when you meet face to face if you’ve both posted images that show you as you are.Your profile pic should portray you as someone who’d make a good partner, so make sure you look comfortable. A good guideline would be a picture of you wearing the sort of thing you would choose to wear on a first date.Actually, my mother chastises me for dating men of modest means. And, to be honest, meeting a guy who makes six figures makes me think, There is no alternative to going online to meet someone in your 50s. Too often, when we go to online dating sites, we discover that we can barely make out the people in the photo and become apprehensive about contacting them for fear of what they may actually look like.
It wouldn't stop the sudden contact losses or anything. But when I go to a site, and a profile doesnt have a pic, it doesnt matter, i still reply if i like what is said on the profile. I encourage people to take a chance, you may be pleasantly surprised.. I have initiated contact with people on here based solely on their profile and have met them without seeing them first. Now, however, I am in a different age bracket ~ I would never do it that way again. Choose a headshot that clearly shows your face smiling and in a flattering light (natural light is best), plus one full-length shot and another that shows you doing something you enjoy such as surfing or snowboarding.Some dating advice for the girls – make sure make-up is subtle, or as you would normally wear it – the same applies to clothing.Of the ones I have Email'ed and had a conversation with on line, my mental image was very similar to the physical person.___I find that very interesting. On these sites you usually end up exchanging your personal e-mails anyway and they can e-mail pictures at that time.This is a good way to find someone with like interests and intelligence first. I usually e-mail profiles with no pictures, something about the unknown maybe.