Which is why I’m not asking you to change yourself; only to change your choice of men.Recently I was asked what percentage of my clients found love by changing their personalities vs.If you’re out working 60 hours a week, you don’t need a guy who does the same. You can protest that you don’t want your complement; you still want your clone. Because when you choose someone with a complementary energy, the puzzle pieces just fit and the whole thing becomes easy.You might need a guy who is your complement, a supporter, a nurturer, your biggest fan who is your strength when the going gets tough. And I assure you, there’s absolutely no need for dating coaching when you’re in an easy relationship with a guy who is a great fit for your life. Click here to learn more about this coaching program for smart, strong, successful women.So…Victoria Secret's top model Miranda Kerr got the boot.
Believe me, I am working through all the blog posts in this website so I can try to understand myself, and men, and dating even better. thanks for letting me ramble…I rarely post but something about this video spoke to me. Over and over, you plug away, trying to make things work, even though it should be readily apparent by now: there’s not necessarily something wrong with YOU, nor is every man in your life fatally flawed. Two great ingredients don’t necessarily taste good together. So what we’re here to do is try to reduce this to a simple science, finding a man who’s not just a great guy, but finding a man who’s a great fit for your life.That may sound a little cold and cerebral to you, but I hate to tell you, following your heart has caused pretty much all of your relationship troubles.I feel like I hurt a good man by trying to make a relationship work that was not the right “fit”. I mean, I understand we are all our own recipe (referring to Evan’s food mention above)…and I know some recipes don’t go with each other, but there has GOT to be one that fits better? I am trying to figure out why it’s so hard for me to be “mean” and say “this isn’t working for me”.My brother, told me this: “Remember, there is no Mr. It’s a problem in many areas of my life: I am a pleaser, and don’t know “me”.