There’s a scarcity, always the threat of insecurity.Loyalty isn’t just about being devoted to someone; it’s about somebody being you when everybody and everything is seemingly against you.Artists like Rihanna and Miley Cyrus have sung excellent songs sexually explicit enough to make even someone like Lill Wayne ' mentality where we need to divide our number of sexual partners by three in order to utter it out loud, we have sex on the first date and boast about it. To have one rule for popstars that we consider 'sexual' and another for those that we consider 'chaste', is to set a dangerous precedent.It's to fall into that patriarchal ideology of there being the kind of girl men have sex with and date, and the type of girl they bring home to their mother and eventually marry.Nobody liked pop quizzes in high school, nobody needs them in dating. If you approach a woman expecting to meet her flaws, you’ll be less disappointed when they show up, and you’ll probably find you still like her anyway. Because women are human — just like other humans you know; your mother, your father, your brother, your cousins — they will disappoint you at one time or another. If you like a woman a lot, see potential in her, it’s clear she has a good heart, just ask her to give you a chance.
And if you have expectations of a woman, she’s going to have expectations of you and you have to be willing to honor her expectations in return. Which means you actually have to get to know her outside of a bed and outside of just the two of you going out together in your world.You can’t expect unconditional love from a woman without practicing it yourself. Another time I started dating a new guy less than a week after I broke up with someone else.It has become synonymous with “having somebody’s back.” In the early 2000’s when Beyoncé dropped her first solo single, Crazy in Love featuring her now husband, Jay-Z, they became the proto-type for the new urban love story and her album aptly entitled “Dangerously in Love” redefined our ideas about what it means for a woman to have a man’s back in urban culture.Beyoncé was America’s pop sweetheart who fell for the king of the streets, and became the ultimate “Ride or Die chick.” She was strong, independent, and proved that now even good suburban-bred girls could or Even if the streets didn’t “make you,” if you’re in your thirties today, hip-hop music most certainly shaped you.