You can’t have a relationship, after all, without sharing the same goals or dreams.Dating can get monotonous, so be sure to have a few interesting questions up your sleeve.If you don't know where to begin, start with these: 1. This is good for you to know so there won't be any surprises if you're ever invited to their place. I know this sounds repetitive, but believe it or not there are a lot of people who reside under the same roof, but don't believe that they live with someone. This is helpful knowledge so you'll have an idea of how their time will be spent, and it's a look into how they are as a parent. Ask this question up front so you'll have an understanding of where you stand with them before you set your mind into commitment after a few dates, or in many cases after the first night. No matter where you start on the list be sure you delve into asking as many questions that are in your head and on your heart.It's also a hint at whether or not they live with a current or exe lover. Here's how you know of someone lives with you (or you live with each other): if your names are on the lease, and on utility bills that you both pay then someone lives with you, and you live with them. If they don't, ask them if they want children in the near future, just so you'll know what to expect. If they are honest enough to tell you they're seeing other people don't be upset. Because you want to be clear about who you're potentially getting involved with, and you want to make sure they are completely single. In today's society, you need to ask just to be sure. They're great conversation starters, and you'd be surprised at how much you have in common with someone, or the blatant differences between you two.Nothing gives me more pleasure than having a five-minute conversation that opens up a new way of thinking for a woman. Still, it’s a lot easier to give advice than to apply it to yourself.
If you are thinking this is one of the questions not to ask, then you are so wrong.This is definitely not a bad first date question, on the contrary.It’s one of those first date questions that will intrigue your partner, or even make him laugh.Bringing back memories can tell you a lot about your partner, what kind of things he finds fun or funny, and maybe even what he likes doing.Even if it’s your first date, don’t hesitate to ask him this. You want to know how he sees life and if there is something specific, he wants to achieve. Maybe he wants to run away from reality and live in an isolated island or a farm far away from civilization.