However, in my experience, many of you are oblivious of your own shortcomings in the looks department and I have a sneaky suspicion you may have well and truly fallen off the self awareness horse.
Conventional wisdom states that beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder, but it seems to me that some of you beholders are blind when looking at your own reflections.
It’s time to ask yourself if it really is her age that you fear, or rather the fact that you may feel threatened by a woman who has achieved great things in life and is your intellectual equal.
Or perhaps it’s neither and marriage simply isn’t for you.
I proceed to ask what you are looking for in a spouse. Over the past few weeks, I have spent hours of exchanges attempting to find you suitable matches; women with whom you can build a meaningful relationship.
You respond to tell me that you are searching for someone who is intelligent, possesses a great sense of humour and most importantly somebody who is spiritual. Some of these single women have included: – a multi award winning writer for one of the world’s largest news corps – an award winning journalist often featured on major news channels – a surgeon who has performed operations across the world on a voluntary basis as an act of charity – a high flying lawyer whose looks rival that of a Bollywood actress I have been extremely disappointed to find that ALL of the above women have been rejected because you’ve deemed them ‘too old’.
It’s pure fun since there’s no place for failed dates and lost hopes. All you need to do is swipe right for yes or left if you’re not interested.
If the both of you swipe YES, then it’s a match and you can contact this person as soon as possible.
Astonishingly, one of you (yes, you- the forty two year old with the grey hair ), was even bold enough to ask if I could ‘guarantee’ that the lady in question was fertile. Another one of you expressed worries about the risk of any future children born to an ‘older woman’ having Down’s Syndrome. Which leads me nicely on to my next point; physical attraction.
It’s a global application so you can meet people even from the other side of globe. You can meet and greet only the ones who caught your attention.
It’s safe since through privacy settings you are able to display only your name and picture.
Physical attraction is a luxury that you may choose to wait for. Of course,you may insist on both and be willing to die single, or you may have to choose. You will eventually find true beauty shapes your perception from the inside out.
You may even choose to be single forever rather than marry someone you aren’t physically attracted to. There is a genuine crisis happening right under our noses, where amazingly talented single women are being overlooked because of your irrational fears and increasing list of demands.